I don’t always comment, but I always read, and I just wanted to say that I hope everything works out for you and Ashley in the end. I know that families get scared and insecure, especially when their child wants to take a dramatic step, but I get the feeling that you two will overcome their insecurity and rise above. You seem to have such a beautiful attitude, about your relationship and the world around you. It will stand you in good stead. 🙂